Safety & Security

Built to be safe.
Honest about what that means.

Here is exactly what we do — and a clear list of what we do not claim. Most companies publish the first list. We publish both.

How We Verify Every Member

Seven safeguards, on by default

Both verification layers apply to every member. Institutional credentials are a second layer, never a shortcut past the first.

18+ Age Gate

Every member confirms their date of birth at signup. Anyone under 18 is automatically rejected.

Layer 1 — Live Selfie + Liveness Check

A real-time selfie and gesture challenge confirms there is a real person, physically present, controlling the account. Required of every member without exception — including those using institutional emails.

Layer 2 — Institutional Affiliation

University (.ac.uk), NHS (.nhs.net) and government (.gov.uk) email addresses are verified against the domain, confirming the member belongs to a real, accountable community. This is a second layer on top of the liveness check. It is not a substitute for it, and it does not shorten or extend the trial.

No Messaging, By Design

There is no in-app chat, no media sharing, and no way to contact another member through the app. The only way to act on a signal is to say hello in person.

Invisible By Default

You are off the map until you choose to switch on. Visibility ends the moment you switch off — no delay, no residual trace.

Safe Zones

Members can save their home and work addresses as Safe Zones. When inside a Safe Zone, visibility is suppressed automatically — you never appear on the map near where you live or work, even if your signal is on.

Zero-Tolerance Policy

Harassment, impersonation, or any attempt to bypass verification results in an immediate, permanent ban. We cooperate fully with law enforcement where required.

Honesty

What we do not claim

Safety pages that only list what a product does are marketing. A cautious reader — a student, a parent, a safeguarding lead — wants to know the limits too.

We do not verify relationship status

The signal means a member is open to a polite introduction. It does not mean they are single. We have no way to verify someone's relationship status and we do not claim to.

We do not run criminal record checks

Verification confirms a real person controls the account and, for institutional members, that they belong to a real organisation. It is not a DBS check and does not screen for criminal history.

We do not verify age by document

Age is self-declared at signup. Members confirm they are 18 or over. We do not request or verify identity documents as part of the standard signup flow.

Online Safety Act risk assessment is in preparation

Yes I'm Single is a user-to-user service. An illegal content risk assessment under the Online Safety Act 2023 is budgeted and will be completed before institutional launch. We do not claim it is done.

What We're NOT

This Isn't Another Dating Site

We don't match you. We don't message for you. We simply let you know who's single so you can make a real connection.

Y.I.S. eliminates most of the issues associated with traditional dating platforms — our members don't hide behind keyboards and filters. They're real, active, and here.

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Endless swiping from your couch
30 seconds to scan who's nearby, then put your phone away
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Matching algorithms decide for you
You decide who to approach in real life
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Weeks of messaging before meeting
See them. Walk up. Say hello.
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Catfishing and fake profiles
Photo-verified users physically present near you

Y.I.S. is a Social Signaling Tool — helping you meet people the old-fashioned way, with a modern assist.

Community Standards

The "Respect the Room" Policy

How we maintain a high-standard environment in all spaces.

Introduction, Not Expectation

Being visible on the map is a signal of availability for a polite "Hello," not a license for persistence. If the vibe isn't there, respect the boundary and move on.

The "Invisible" Right

Members have the absolute right to toggle "Off" at any moment. Once a user is off the map, they are in "private mode" and should not be approached via the app's context.

Accountability

Any report of harassment or making others feel unsafe will result in a permanent ban. We link accounts to verified IDs to ensure our community remains respectful.

Frequently asked questions

Your data, your photos, your rights — answered plainly.

More questions? support@yesimsingle.uk

Welfare & Support

You're never on your own

Yes I'm Single helps you meet people safely — but if you ever need more support than that, these UK-wide services are free, confidential, and available now.

Samaritans

Free, confidential support for anyone in emotional distress — 24/7.

116 123 →

Nightline

Student-run, night-time listening service — check if your university or SU runs one.

Ask your SU →

Student Minds

The UK's student mental health charity — peer support and resources.

Visit site →

NHS 111

Free non-emergency medical help, day or night.

111 →

CALM

Support for anyone struggling, with a focus on suicide prevention.

0800 58 58 58 →

Emergency Services

If you or someone else is in immediate danger.

999

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